Signs A Colleague Needs A Break

A friend recently confided in me, 'I worked through the weekend. Nothing else seemed appealing.' Meaning they didn't want to read, partake in a hobby, watch a movie, play a video game, or do anything else so they chose to work instead. They were surprised to hear that this is a sign of burnout. Why? One of the key symptoms of burnout is the loss of interest or enjoyment in activities that used to be fun. When someone finds nothing appealing, including activities they typically enjoy, like reading, watching TV, or going to the gym, it can be a sign that they are emotionally and physically exhausted. Choosing to work on the weekend instead of engaging in leisure activities can sometimes be a coping mechanism for dealing with burnout. Work may provide a sense of purpose or distraction from negative feelings, but it's not a sustainable solution. Overworking can exacerbate burnout and lead to further stress and exhaustion. People experiencing burnout often find it difficult to disconnect from work, even during their downtime. This can be due to a sense of obligation, fear of falling behind, or the belief that working more will solve their problems. However, constantly being "on" and never allowing oneself to fully relax contributes to chronic stress and prevents proper recovery. Engaging in activities like reading, watching TV, or pursuing hobbies are forms of self-care that help recharge our batteries and maintain overall well-being. When someone consistently chooses to prioritize work over self-care activities, it can indicate that they're neglecting their own needs, which can worsen burnout symptoms over time. If your weekends start to look like extensions of your workweeks, it's not a matter of poor time management; there's likely a deeper issue. It's crucial to recognize these signals, re-prioritize self-care, and seek the support needed to navigate out of the burnout zone.

Do not let your friends get to this point ↴ Rock bottom. In a profession like recruiting (external), many of us, including myself, have reached this point multiple times. The pressure is palatable, especially for high-pressure solo practitioners where our success determines if we feed our families. 👉 Let's break down the concerns ↴ 1. Burnout   → Unrealistic targets and the "always-on" nature of the job add to this stress and mental, physical, and emotional exhaustion. 2. Rejection Fatigue → The "No's" add up: Constantly dealing with candidates' & clients' rejections or disappointments can create feelings of inadequacy or failure. 3. Pressure for Performance → Intense Metrics-driven environments can result in overwhelming stress to meet KPIs. Economic factors, such as layoffs or hiring freezes, add further stress. 4. Emotional Toll of Candidate Support → Supporting them through brutal rejections or coaching them to improve can be draining. 5. Isolation in Remote Work → For some, the shift to remote recruitment has reduced in-office camaraderie, increased feelings of isolation & impacted mental well-being. 👉 What to look out for in our industry colleagues, friends and family↴ 1. Decreased Productivity Missed deadlines, lower placements, or poor performance relative to prior output. 2. Physical Symptoms → Fatigue, headaches, disrupted sleep, or drastic weight/appetite changes. 3. Changes in Attitude or Behavior → Irritability, reduced communication, or withdrawal from team interactions. 4. Reduced Job Satisfaction → Expressing dissatisfaction or lack of fulfillment in the role. (not standard sarcasm)🙄 5. Impaired Decision-Making → Difficulty managing priorities or making clear, strategic choices. 👉 Strategies to Address Mental Health in Recruitment ↴ 1. Normalize Mental Health Conversations → Provide a culture where discussing stress or seeking help is welcomed and not stigmatized. 2. Reasonable Targets and Metrics  → Ensure KPIs are ambitious but achievable to reduce unnecessary pressure. 3. Flexible Work Arrangements → Encourage work-life harmony through remote work flexibility or mental health days. 4. Mental Health Resources Offer access to counseling, therapy, or stress management programs. 5. Peer Support Networks → Build spaces where recruiters can share experiences & coping strategies. 6. Training Managers to Spot Signs → Equip leaders to recognize when team members need support & how to provide it effectively. Recruitment is a team sport & we must look out for each other as humans. Keep an eye on your friends who do this solo and check in on them. It's like a REAL check-in. Together, we can make a difference! 👉 And before you write some snarky comment about job seekers or other professions, YES, these tips can apply to all. But right now, I am focusing on my industry to spread the word and make a difference. Thank you!  

5 years ago, I hit “send” on a 2:13am launch recap, then stared at the screen, too numb to celebrate the win we’d chased for months. The next day, I asked a direct report how their “second week” was going. She gently reminded me that she joined two months ago. That was embarrassing b/c I pride myself on knowing my people and my team. And that was a wake-up call. Hitting pause felt reckless at first, but stepping away, sleeping more than 4 hours, and delegating tasks changed everything. Our pipeline didn’t collapse.  Our creativity actually spiked.  And our team morale was better than ever. Now “2:13 a.m. syndrome” is my shorthand. I always make sure to check in with my team regularly in 1:1s for the earliest signs of fatigue, and we course-correct before burnout happens. Burnout is a serious issue in the B2B space, especailly now with how fast things are moving. And this can have a significant impact on you and your team's productivity and morale. It's important to recognize the warning signs and have a plan for if/when you have to deal with it. 𝐒𝐲𝐦𝐩𝐭𝐨𝐦𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐦𝐚𝐲 𝐛𝐞 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐛𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐨𝐮𝐭: 1. Increased fatigue and fatigue that persists even after rest  2. Loss of enthusiasm or motivation  3. Feelings of apathy or detachment  4. Negative thinking or outlook  5. Difficulty concentrating or remembering  6. Decreased productivity or quality of work  7. Physical signs of stress, such as headaches or stomachaches  8. Increased irritability or impulsiveness  9. Changes in sleep or appetite  10. Increased reliance on substances such as alcohol, drugs, or cigarettes 𝐖𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐛𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐨𝐫 𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐢𝐭 𝐢𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮'𝐫𝐞 𝐝𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐢𝐭 𝐫𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐧𝐨𝐰: 1. Take regular breaks throughout the day  2. Get adequate sleep and rest  3. Exercise and eat healthy meals  4. Practice relaxation techniques such as deep breathing, yoga, or meditation  5. Connect with friends, family, and colleagues  6. Set boundaries between work and home life  7. Prioritize tasks and delegate when necessary  8. Practice self-care, such as taking a walk, reading a book, or getting a massage  9. Talk to a mental health professional for additional support  10. Develop a support network of people who understand your work and personal life 𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐝𝐝? 😊